Start by envisioning the much more common white-fingered Cane Bluestem (Bothriochloa barbinodis) with its snow white seedhead, then look for a similar (usually shorter) plant that has reddish-silverish seedheads instead. Then check the shapes of the spikelets and florets, especially the awns, to differentiate from Feather Fingergrass.
The biggest problem is Feather Fingergrass (Chloris virgata), because it is superficially very similar and usually pinkish. Feather Fingergrass, however, is quite different in spikelet morphology. You will need your hand lens and micro views of each (below). The upper floret of Yellow Bluestem is attached by an obvious pedicel, unlike Feather Fingergrass. The shapes of the florets are quite different and the long hairs arise from different places. Fastest way to differentiate is to check the awns. Feather Fingergrass awns are only 1/8 inch and straight. In Yellow Bluestem only the lower floret has an awn, half an inch long, sharply bent, and twisted.